7 Signs You’re Still Hung Up On Your Ex
Are you still hung up on your ex? Do you wish that you could get back together with him? Do you find yourself waking up in the middle of the night and longing for her to be there next to you?
There are so many obvious signs that someone could be hung up on their ex still, but there are also a number of signs that aren’t so obvious. Even if you don’t want to admit you still do some of these things, you should take some time to openly and honestly evaluate the situation.
If you’re still hung up on your ex, it could make things much more difficult for you to get over them.
Sign #1: You haven’t unfriended him on Facebook.
Or whatever social media site you prefer. If you are still ‘friends’ with him, you need to ask yourself why. When people break up, sometimes they say they can ‘still be friends,’ but that’s rarely ever practical. And it hardly ever works.
If you’re still connected through social media then you (or him) haven’t quite moved on properly.
Sign #2: You have his pictures, phone number, and texts still on your phone.
It can be hard to delete some of these memories when things come to an end. You want to cherish those moments when she still seemed to care about you. You want to gaze upon his smile when you two were at the park.
It’s time to cut these things out from your phone. Download them if you really want to save them, but put them on a disc and throw that thing in the bottom of a drawer and forget about it.
Sign #3: You’d sleep with him if given the chance.
If you still fantasize about you two getting hot and heavy in between the sheets and if he called you up right now and you’d have no hesitation about jumping into the sack with him, then you’re not over him quite yet.
If he ended the relationship, find a way to accept that. Even if he did knock on your door one night looking for some action, show yourself some respect and turn him down.
Sign #4: You keep texting him.
You might say they were ‘accidents,’ but they weren’t, really. When you text him to see how he’s doing, you’re showing that you just haven’t gotten over him yet.
Sign #5: You can’t stop thinking about him when you hear certain songs.
Yes, certain songs are always going to remind you about him for the rest of your life, but if you actively seek out to play those songs to reminisce in your mind, then you’re not over him just yet.
Sign #6: You still cry when thinking about her.
If the thought of your ex still brings you to tears, then you know you’re not over her yet. What clearer sign could you want?
Sign #7: You wish your ex could see you with this new hunk.
The moment you begin thinking about your ex when you’re dating someone new because you would love if he saw you with this guy, guess what? That’s right … you’re not over him yet.
Written by G. T. Hedlund