Meeting someone nice, strong, confident, successful, and fun to be around can seem like the impossible challenge. You’ve been to the bars. You’ve done the night club scene. Heck, you’ve even gone to those 5-minute date challenges. Still you go home at night alone to an empty apartment with no prospects, no dates on the horizon, and every single guy you seem to meet is a complete fool.
Flirting can be an art. It doesn’t have to be, but it can be. For every woman out there who has mastered the art of flirting, though, there are probably 10 others who have no clue how to do this. Some woman do these things without even realizing it; it’s natural, something they don’t have to think about.
Every relationship is a journey, which means it is going somewhere. It could be marriage, break up or it could mean moving in together. It’s strange that a concept that was considered taboo even a few decades ago has become so popular today. For modern men and women, this is a great step to take. It is kind of a testing ground to see if a long term commitment like marriage can work. If not, you are both better off with least hassles in the process. Here are a few signs that will tell you whether you are ready to move in together.
Being single isn’t always a choice for some people. For others, they wouldn’t want their life any other way. Being friends can be great, but what happens when those friends begin to get married? It can create some uncomfortable (and unwanted) conversations at some point in the future.
Watching your friends all start getting married might seem like another excuse for a great party (after all, most wedding receptions are loaded with alcohol, food, and single women), but after a while, when you’re one of the last of your friends to remain single, you might just start having certain thoughts.
Relationships are hard work. Anyone who thinks it’s easy to be in one either hasn’t put much effort into it (which places all the pressure on their partner who will one day resent it) or is heading for a breakup. If you’re not willing to focus on making the effort to ensure this one works out, don’t go looking outside of yourself for the answers about why it didn’t.
It’s the teenage fantasy: hooking up with the teacher, the friend’s mother, or that single older woman down the street. That doesn’t seem to change all that much when guys get older, become ‘adults,’ and even well into their 30s and 40s.
Whoever said that a man does not cry is reading the wrong book of rules. Men cry, maybe not as often as we do but they have tears to shed too. Just because they have a different set of hormones it’s stupid to expect them to be macho all the time. Tears are a form of releasing extreme stress and if its works for you, it will work for them too. So here are a few things you absolutely must not do if you find your man crying, nor any man for that matter.
You’re alone. Single. Still. It’s not like this is something you really want, but no matter what you do you can’t seem to find someone with whom to settle down for any length of time. Your relationships probably last all of about a month or two, if that, then you’re back to single life once again.
When you first start dating a new man, it can be an exciting time. You’re both learning about the other and there’s an electricity you can’t find anywhere else in life. Those first weeks and months are some of the best and while you’re trying to dig into his psyche and get to the bottom of what makes him tick, even when you think you’ve got everything out of him, there are some things he probably hasn’t shared with you.
Wonder why there are so many therapy sessions dedicated to just mending relationships? – Because they are hard. It is human nature to be love and be in a relationship though the meaning and definitions have changed over the years. They also differ in concept from one person to the other, but the bottom line has remained the same, partnering is in our DNA. Maybe that’s why the Amazonians didn’t last nor do the loners make the majority of our population. So why do we face so many problems when we are in a relationship?